6 things nobody tells you about falling in love

Love is a beautiful thing, but it isn’t like what
we imagine in romantic movies and marriage
isn’t as horrible as most of us see in TV
dramas. Both of them really do give accurate
account of what falling in-love is like.
Inspired by All Women Stalk, here are a few
things no one tells you about falling in love:
1. It’s terrifying: It takes a whole lot of courage
to open your heart to someone, which is why
loving someone who doesn’t love you back it’s
the worst kind of feeling ever. You are open to
a lot of risk, cheating, disrespect and ultimately
a breakup.
2. You can love and hate someone at the same
time: This is why it takes more than love to
sustain a relationship. We see couples getting
divorced but they still love each other, that’s
proof enough.
3. You pick each other’s habits: The person you
love and loves you back rubs off some
characters on you. These characters make you
better or worse.
4. Love doesn’t happen overnight: Forget
movies, no successful relationship begins
overnight. You need to put in more effort to
make it work. This means learning and falling in
love over and over again with their good side as
well as their flaws.
5. It takes more than love to work a
relationship: You both need to agree on many
things to stay together. If you disagree a lot,
the love you have for each other will never be
able to hold you together.
6. You have fights about senseless things: It’s
not possible to like everything about your
partner, some things will definitely annoy you
and most of them will lead to fights. It doesn’t
mean you would break up, you’ll just be able to
compromise more and get over your fights.

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